Is Addiction to the Internet Permanent?

Has Internet usage become a permanent part of our lives, or is there still a chance it could be a fad? 

Isn’t there always a possibility we could reject using the Internet, or that something bigger and better might come along?  Or is networking everyone and everything, to everyone and everything else, just too good of an idea to give up?  Can anything bigger and better come along, other than an ESP hive mind?


Over the recent centuries, there have been many back to nature movements.  None ever caught on with the public at large, but these movements have been big enough for thousands of people to retreat to living in the country hoping to find a more fulfilling life.  Both the 19th and the 20th century had fairly large communal living movements, and Henry David Thoreau is still very appealing to people today.

I guess the question to ask is:  Does the Internet make people happier?  Billions certainly have flocked to it.  And it certainly gives the illusion that the world is much smaller, and it’s possible to know far more people.  I assume people are happier, because most net users spend hours each day on the web, and billions of smart phones have been sold.

I guess the next question to ask is:  How would you live without the Internet?  (Just, in case it went away.)

My immediate answer is I’d read books and magazines, watch TV, and listen to CDs.  That’s what I did before the Internet came along.  And I think that answers the title question.  Everything we liked before the Internet was internet like.  We cherished technology that brought us news from around the world, that let us keep up with other groups of people, to share ideas, to feel part of a bigger world.  Retreating to living on a commune in the woods sounds very isolating and lonely, but I could probably do it if I at least had a nice selection of books.

I really can’t imagine people rejecting the Internet, other than maybe religious extremists.  Sooner or later, fundamentalists may reject the Internet because it’s like the teaching of evolution, something that will undermine their beliefs.  I can picture some fundamentalists giving up the Internet like the Amish gave up modern technology.

I guess it might be possible for some people, Internet addiction could be so bad that they will reject it completely, because it will be an all or nothing affair for them.

And finally, there might be some people, like those who have given up television, because they are so focused on their work, art, sport, hobby, etc. that the Internet will seem like wasting time.

For most people, I think our addiction to the net will only grow.  I get a lot of my television from the net now, and nearly all my music, and I subscribe to a service for magazines over the net.  I download audiobooks and ebooks, and read them on Internet connected mobile devices.  I participate mildly in social media, mainly the old fashion kind like Yahoogroups for book clubs, and blogging.  I keep my photos online, and my documents, and all my ripped CDs.  When I want to learn something new I turn to the Internet.  For example, when I wanted to peel a mango I studied it on YouTube.  When I check out a library book, I look it up online and put it on hold.  When I shop for clothes or new gadgets, I shop online.  Now that I’m retired I spend a fair amount of my social time online, rather in person.

Damn, I’m addicted.  Maybe I should give it up.  Why should I?  I don’ think there’s a real reason.  But could I?  Know what’s funny, the hardest thing I’d have trouble giving up is  I’d painfully miss, but I could go back to CDs.  And my pocketbook would miss, but the only way to get audiobooks cheap is via

If I could walk more I might do more “real” things.  One reason I don’t feel my spinal stenosis as a burden is I love living on the net.  I can’t walk for exercise, but I could bike.  I could go see more people.  I could get some dogs and cats.  I could garden.  I could take up guitar playing, or chess, or wood working.  There’s endless amount of things to do off the net.  I’m just as addicted as all those kids who live and breath social media lives.

For me, if I had to live without the Internet, I’d spend my days writing like I do now, but I’d write essays or stories to submit to magazines.  I think periodicals were the Victorian age’s Internet.

I’ve got to assume the Internet is here to stay, and its where I’ll live until I die.  I asked my wife just now if she could give up the Internet, and she snapped back, “Are you crazy?”  She freaks out if she gets out of reach of her iPhone.  She watches television with her laptop on her lap.

I do wonder if the Internet could become any more addictive?  What features are left to add that will fill up the rest of our real lives?  No, the Internet is not a fad, it’s become a way of life.

JWH – 2/19/14

6 thoughts on “Is Addiction to the Internet Permanent?”

  1. Actually it looks as if the Internet may be about to get a lot smaller and more constricted, at least in the US. Tom Wheeler, former industry lobbyist and current FCC chair has announced that he will neither appeal the Verizon net neutrality ruling nor re-classify broadband ISP’s as common carriers. So the limited form of net neutrality we has is likely history.

    Then there’s the fact that over 20 states have passed laws prohibiting public provision of internet service. And the impending merger of Comcast and Time-Warner, just the latest in a long run of ISP/media consolidation.

    Put the pieces together — further deregulation, more consolidation and less competition; most likely more tiered service for both content providers and consumers accompanied by higher rates for everybody; last but not least, shrinking discretionary income for most of the population. I’d say it’s probably time to stop worrying about being more connected, even though passive consumption may actually still increase.

    1. Yeah, I know things like this has got me worried. In the last month my streaming connections have been timing out, and they’ve never done that before. I don’t know if it’s something wrong with my internet provider, the equipment, or if Netflix and other companies are getting jammed.

        1. That was very helpful, thanks for posting that link. I can understand why companies wouldn’t want to add capacity because of Netflix, except that they are selling internet connections to customers that want to use that capacity. In theory, every internet company needs to build capacity until we have enough for everyone to do everything they want. And that might be for every customer to use their device 24×7 to watch HD movies. And even then, is 7 billion times continuous HD feeds the maximum capacity of the internet. I have three tablets and two computers listening to the internet at all times.

  2. Does internet addiction even exist? I doubt it. I just blogged about research claiming that porn addiction doesn’t exist, either. Isn’t this similar?

    Using the internet is something you like to do, so you do it. But I think there’s a puritanical sense in most of us that doing what we like to do is somehow bad. It’s not.

    Obviously, we don’t want to stop doing it, because we enjoy it. But that doesn’t make it an ‘addiction,’ even if you do it more than you think you should. Have you ever spent too much time reading? I certainly have. But reading isn’t an addiction, either.

    1. Some internet use is vital for work. — But I also use it to find people who do organic gardening or know how to clip their own sheep, spin their own wool — or just talk to retired Latin teachers. I can also stay for days off the net. Its all how you use it and your own sense of self-control. I control it, it doesn’t control me

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